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The Rarity of Authentic Self-Expression
In the song, it says, “Boy dreaming sweet pretty cute charming girlfriend / (Hah) it’s just a 幻想,” which translates to “the fantasy of a sweet, cute, and charming girlfriend.” Have you ever actually thought about this?
Shetona: I haven’t really thought about it, but I do occasionally face the opposite kind of fantasy being imposed on me. Even though I’m quiet and shy, people sometimes say things like, “You must be very outgoing,” or “You seem strong,” or “You must have a lot of romantic experience.” In any case, I think very few girls are truly open about who they are. So, there’s a bit of irony in this song directed at those kinds of external expectations.
I feel that there are quite a few men who act with contempt towards women who openly express their sexuality.
Shetona: Yes, that’s true. I’ve experienced situations where, when facing problems or observing my surroundings, I’ve heard comments like, “She wears too much makeup,” or “She only hangs out with guys.” Such judgments and assumptions can lead to isolation. This might be a common issue in both single-gender and co-ed schools, and perhaps in broader social settings for women.
By the way, do you ever feel that women depicted in works created by men, who embody the so-called “sweet, cute, and charming” ideal, reflect this kind of male fantasy?
Shetona: Yes, there is a sense of that desire for women to conform to certain ideals in male-dominated spaces. I really like the Sakurazaka46 idols, for instance, and many men have these expectations of them. I think there are idols who accept and even embrace these perceptions.
As you mentioned, idols often carry the weight of their fans’ fantasies. While there are increasing numbers of idols who resist this and stay true to themselves, those individuals often become targets of criticism.
Shetona: Yes, that’s true. Conversely, women, including myself, sometimes impose ideals on men, like preferring “handsome and tall” guys. In the end, it seems we all harbor fantasies about each other. I think it might be good to have songs that take a step further and express irony about these fantasies.
